What to Wear for Your Session
(aka: let’s make choosing lingerie feel fun instead of stress-inducing)
Hey Beautiful (and yes, that includes you — all genders, all bodies, all identities, all flavors of magic).
Picking outfits for your session can feel like A Whole Thing. I get it. Choosing clothes on a normal Tuesday can already be an emotional sport. So breathe. I’ve got you. I’m going to walk you through what to bring, what to look for, and how to prep so we can create absolute fire together , no stress spiral required.
Bralettes / Bras & Panty Sets
There are so many gorgeous options out there, and the best one?
The one that makes you feel good in your skin.
When you’re shopping, forget the “perfect body” nonsense — we’re aiming for comfort, support, and confidence.
A few things to consider:
Fit is everything.
You want pieces that hold you without squeezing the life out of you. Move around. Lift your arms. If the sides feel smooth and your chest feels supported (not escaping), you’re good.Push-ups:
Cute if that’s the vibe, but they can also create shapes that don’t feel natural. Totally up to you. If you love them? Bring them. If you don’t? Skip.Bottoms:
Love your tummy out and about? Amazing. Go for pretty details that highlight that beautiful booty.
Want more midsection coverage? High-waisted cuts are chef’s kiss and still show off your curves in all the right ways.
Cheeky, thong, fuller coverage — they all work.
And yes, I can always work some posing magic or a playful faux-wedgie moment to highlight those buns.
Bottom line: your comfort = your confidence = your fire on camera.
Bodysuits & Teddies
Ohhh these are my ride-or-dies.
Seriously — bodysuits and teddies look incredible on every body size, shape, gender, and vibe.
Some come with cups and underwire, some don’t. Both are great. A tiny bit of “spillage” or extra fabric is no big deal — posing and hand placement will make everything look intentional and gorgeous.
Look for:
Adjustable straps
Lace, mesh, embroidery, studs — any details that make you feel delicious
Pieces that highlight the waist or elongate your shape
If you want something that gives a little coverage while still feeling sexy, these are a dream.
Garters, Fishnets, Cage Bras… Oh My
Let’s talk accessories, because this is where things get fun.
Garter belts
These can be layered over sets, bodysuits, or worn solo. Stockings come in two main types:
With rubber tops (these say they stay up… they lie)
Without rubber (usually easier with garters)
Don’t worry about attaching them , I’ll help.
Fishnets
High-waisted, different patterns, worn with or without panties, always a vibe. Or even a full fishnet bodystocking.
Cage bras
These add instant edge and photograph so beautifully. They come as part of lingerie or as stand-alone pieces you can layer.
All of these can be for anyone — femme, masc, fluid, queer, trans, nonbinary — if you like the look, it belongs on your body.
Clothing & Shapewear
Lingerie isn’t the only path to sexy…
Think:
A hot leather jacket
Ripped jeans paired with a bra
Oversized off-the-shoulder sweaters
A tank top + lace thong
A skirt + bralette
A button-up shirt and nothing else
High socks… always a win
You can absolutely bring pieces that express your identity, your style, your gender presentation, or your sensuality.
What to skip:
Thick jerseys or bulky pieces that hide your shape or steal focus.
We want you to be the art here.
Nude / Just the Sheets
Listen…
You might not think you’ll want nudes, but every single time people say that, they end up obsessed.
There is something powerful about stripping down to just you, no lace, no colors, no expectations, no performance. Just skin, softness, strength, scars, stories, stretch marks, tattoos, and truth.
This part of the session is completely optional, completely safe, gender-inclusive, and completely freeing.
If you want to wrap up the session in nothing but sheets or full skin-on-skin glow, we’ll honor whatever level of nudity feels empowering for you.
Nothing is sexier than authenticity.
Where to Shop (aka: the fun part!)
If you want to pick up a few new goodies for your session, there are some amazing places to shop ,both locally and online , for every body, every gender expression, every size, and every vibe.
Local Faves
Support small businesses and find some seriously gorgeous pieces right here in our own community:
Purple cactus – Inclusive sizing, great basics, and fun styles that feel good to wear.
Sheer Essentials– Beautiful, unique pieces with amazing staff who actually get fit and comfort.
My Undies – Classic, elegant, and supportive luxe items.
Chain Stores & Online Options
If you’re an online shopper or love a big selection:
Thistle & Spire – Edgy, bold, and insanely photogenic.
La Vie en Rose / La Senza – Solid lingerie staples in a ton of styles.
Torrid / Penningtons – Fantastic plus-size selections with great fit and support.
Winners – A treasure hunt, but when you find the piece… you know.
Amazon – Surprisingly great for last-minute options in all sizes and styles.
The Client Closet (XS–5XL)
Don’t forget, you also have access to my client closet stocked with bodysuits, robes, lingerie sets, and fun accessories in sizes XS through 5XL.
Try things on during your session and choose what makes you feel incredible.
No pressure to buy anything if you don’t want to — the closet is yours to play in.